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Ms. Hanna says that
to help the family learn English, she obtained an Albanian dictionary
and made flashcards for the family using pictures from magazines. In addition,
Mrs. Ahmeti would sometimes call Ms. Hanna at work for a brief conversation
to practice English. After some time, the family learned some English,
and Ms. Hanna helped Alim Ahmeti, the father, find better paying employment
in an industrial shop in Grand Ledge-even going so far as to drive him
to work at 4 a.m. until he obtained his driver's license.
Ms. Hanna says that
as she and the family started to communicate more effectively, the Ahmetis
tried to articulate their experiences in Kosovo to her.
"They wanted me to
know about the hardships they had suffered, the relatives that had been
killed, and their house that had been burned during the occupation," she
says. Despite these horrible events, the Ahmetis fondly described their
country as a very beautiful place.
In April 2000 the
entire family moved back to Kosovo. Ms. Hanna kept in contact with them
and even called them in Kosovo. Unfortunately, the Ahmetis found that
their country had still not recovered from the war: there was no running
water, little electricity, and no employment.
So now Mr. Ahmeti
and his cousin have moved back to Lansing, where they continue to work
to help bring their wives and children back to the United States. Ms.
Hanna says that she thinks the Ahmetis will be successful in their transition,
but she is not ready to give up her relationship with them, even as she
considers mentoring other families.
"I will never abandon
them," she says simply.
Despite Ms. Hanna's
efforts, there remains a steady need for refugee mentors. Ms. Hanna says
that Lansing has a surprisingly large refugee population, with approximately
60 or so families needing mentors. For more information, contact Lansing's
Catholic Social Services Refugee Center at (517)484-1010.
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